Saturday, 9 May 2015

Fight over who???

Happy Saturday lovelies and how was your Friday night? Hope the coffee this morning did help, for those who went clubbing (lol). And for us that still have to go to work, even on Saturday's, it's well with our souls.  Man must wack abi? Things we do to survive.
Today's post is as a result of an incident that occurred a few days ago in my area, where a lady had a fight with another lady over a guy. The irony is that both gals were friends (don't know if after the fight, they will still remain friends) and the guy was just standing in a corner, a smirk on his face and feeling all good with  himself. He is the prize that the gals are competing for. As I looked at him, I personally felt like going over to punch his face.And our gals no dey try at all shaa. When lots of guys abound, why fight? And don't guys have a code or something? Aren't your girlfriend's friends' off limit?
I remember back then in school, a gal called and threatened me over the phone cos of a guy. Threatened to pour me acid and blablabla if I don't leave her man alone. For the record,  I had no prior idea on the existence of this girl nor did I know that the guy hitting on me was seeing her.

I confronted the guy but he denied knowing anything about her. Somehow, I later caught them in a compromising position, don't ask me how, cos that will be a story for another day. Apart from that, I didn't want to hang around to find out if she was bluffing or the threat was real, I took a bold walk. There are many fishes in the ocean mehn. I love my face the way it is, thank you. I don't need an acidic face-lift biko. Some girl asked why can't I fight for my man, I answered, "that's not fighting for my man, it's fighting over a man, and there's a huge difference between both."(story for another day too).
Dear ladies, before you start fighting over a guy think twice, and to the guys before you start fighting with a guy over a gal, think about your life. What if something ugly happens during the course of the fight, wetin you go talk? Heard of a guy who accidentally killed another guy during a fight cos of a girl, the guy is suffering the repercussions in jail. So be wise, there are so many fishes in the ocean. Do have a wonderful weekend dearies.

NB: Is Pammie's Crib a feminine blog? Am I always against the masculine folks? Kindly tell me in the comment section. Need the criticism once in a while, and also give your advices too.  Love you. Cheers.


  1. Pams you nailed it again
    Fight cos of a guy? Hell no

  2. Yes it appears you have a thing against the men folk...straight face*

    1. hahaha. Ive been told so, hence, the question. Thanks dear, will do something about it now.

  3. Mmmm...I will say u ain't too neutral but it's all good.
    Come around my side pamscrib I got a powerful poem coming

  4. Maybe you should try the balance both. Review the issues and take no sides.

    PS: You are doing well.

  5. Fight over who? Good question. You are doing great Pam. Like amaka said you need balance your views.

  6. Hmmmmn, who are your frequent visitors?
    Ladies. .
    So what do you expect. Lolz
    Why fight over a guy? If you fight, kee yourself the guy will move on and several guys will pass the graveyard. Abi how my Yoruba people dey talk am!

    1. U guys outnumber us 3 to 1, so statistically, there aren't dt many fishes in the ocean.. .

      Being sarcastic o, befre u behead me.

  7. That's one thing I know I'll never do : to fight over a guy.

  8. Aint nothing bad in fighting over what is yours...IF YOU ARE SURE IT IS TRULY YOURS!
    Physical fights tho, very unladylike. There are other ways.
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  10. Hahaha if I were a guy, I would feel you have a thing against my kind. Do try to see things from both perspectives dear.

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