Dating an EX to me is like going back to eat up your vomit. I once tried that and believe me we didn't last 3 weeks. We thought it would all be rosy like when we initially dated but mehn, it was more of torture and nothing like before, so we called it quits amicably.
Yes it's true that some people don't know exactly what they have until they loose it. Then they'll want to dance "SHOKI" back into your life begging and winning about how sorry they were for loosing you at the first place and how they'll want you back into their lives. Will you accept him/her back?
Like I said in yesterdays post, letting go can't be done within a blink of an eye, the memories linger, this may lure some-people back into their exes waiting arms, but seriously is that the only choice you've got?
What if your ex cheated or bullied/hit you when you guyz were dating and later broke up, when he/she comes back with that sweet smile of his/her begging and showering you with gifts will you go take them back?
What about that EX who broke up with you for no just cause. He/She just said they needed space and that was it. You cried your eyes out, got thin or fat during that period, tried to get over him/her, then he/she comes back kneeling that he/she wants you back, will you give in to them?
Now listen, if you guyz were meant to be together do you think you would have broken up no matter what?
This question is excluding the beaters and cheaters. Those ones sef, you need to date yourselves. Don't put someone else's child into that kind of trauma.
Now, let's chat biko. If you EX comes back begging, will you take him/her back? When he/she promises to change will you give it a shot? Is dating an EX advisable? And lastly, is being friends with an EX ok especially when it's in detriment of your current relationship?(that's if your EX is hating on your current and trying to drive a divide between both of you. Will you still maintain that friendship? ) Let's talk.