I am an avid reader of your blog, I really like your style of writing, though I don't comment as much as I do read. I really like your guest post of last week and decided to write this, hope its published. Am a male in my early 30's, am madly in love with the gal am dating. She, like many gals have lots of male friends. She does a lot of hanging out with them. Recently, she said an out of town/longtime friend was in town and wanted to see her, and go clubbing with her, she told me. And after clubbing, will go home with him as the distance from her place is far. I agreed. Next, she spent another night again with another male friend of hers after clubbing out with him and said nothing happened between them, though the guy tried to make advances but she refused (her words). I trust and love her. Is it ok for me to let her spend time and hang out wit her male friends? Should I start distrusting her? Please I'll appreciate you comments bcos I'm a bit confused. *****Like Stella, let me sit down and read comments while pretending I'm a mermaid. Lolz**** Please dear friends, let's help our confused broz.