Sunday 1 February 2015

Team snoop or not.




Hehehe, I'm finally gonna handle this issue once and forever, (Lolz),cos a lot of people will like to know if snooping is a good or bad thing. My own definition of snoop is the act of trying to uncover what's been covered without the owner's permission. Hehhehehe.
Now, some people argue that snooping is good and it has helped them from making regrettable decisions, while the other half said it's bad and also, an invasion of privacy.

I believe that people have their different reasons for snooping (they are countless) .  Different people including male and female have confided in me on the heartbreaking outcome of their snooping but though what they found out was painful, they never regretted it; how they trusted their spouse but after snooping they felt disappointed, betrayed and less trust in him/her. 
Do you know that snooping contributes to a lot of broken relationships? What about the feeling you get when snooping? Your heart beating so fast cos if your boyfriend/girlfriend catches you snooping through their phones, hey gobe.

Someone asked me yesterday;  "Pam please tell me, when your partner who was always free with his phone and didn't mind you going through it before, all of a sudden began hiding and passwording his phone, does it mean that he is cheating?"

So please help me, including the lady above in answering this question. Is it OK to snoop so that you'll find out what your partner is hiding from you, or should you just remain ignorant to avoid what you'll uncover? Is snooping the only option to find out what's being hidden?

Comments will be highly appreciated cos a lot of people including yours truely will love to know. Hehehe.  Oya if you are a team snoop in da house, holla at us and tell us your experiences. #winks. Did u just ask if I'm a team snoop? Ehmmm,  I'll tell u tomorrow (runs away).

* Happy new month to you and yours. Wishing you God's abundant love, favour and blessings. Love you all like kilode (Lolz). Kisses from me to you, muaahhh.

12 comments:

  1. its good to snoop,very very advisable,but it is at your own peril.i remember when i was still a sisi*shinesteeth* my hubby snooped on my phone and caught me redhanded.you dont want to hear the remaining tale that followed.
    after then i have been so so mindful of my doings.i hardly snoop on hubby phone cos the only contact on his bbm is me!everything about his phone is boring,so am not bothered for now.
    howdy hope you enjoyed the anointing service.
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  2. Hehehehehe, biko I'll like to knw wat happened afterwards. Lolz

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  3. To the poster yes oooo, if he suddenly puts password on his phone then he must be hiding something unless he just wants you to be unnecessarily suspicious of him

    Snooping is good. People just wants assurance that all is well in their relationship. No one wanna get caught unawares. But snooping can be terrible at times cos you would wish you never snooped. But I will snoop sha atleast to have an idea of what goes on on that phone.

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  4. Hmmm, loving you by the day bae. Lolz.

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  5. If your dating someone,you can snoop.But if you are married,i think it's a bad idea.

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    1. Ok. Y shudnt we snoop wen married since we have already snooped while single. Lolz

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  6. I choose communication over snooping. when communication is involved, it keeps the trust open in the relationship. you can tell him you could snoop or investigate but you choose to respect him and talk. if yours is a sound relationship on a good foundation, He would comply and the relationship will be so open that snooping would be unnecessary.

    in answer to that question, hmmm, talk with him first, a good relationship should have open communication lines, very essential. so talk with him first and should no valuable explanation come or He gets defensive, no need to snoop, just know something is up, it may be cheating or illegal acts or many other things but something is definitely up, then you can snoop to satisfy your curiosity lol. anyways Sha, communication is so much better.

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  7. I choose communication over snooping. when communication is involved, it keeps the trust open in the relationship. you can tell him you could snoop or investigate but you choose to respect him and talk. if yours is a sound relationship on a good foundation, He would comply and the relationship will be so open that snooping would be unnecessary.

    in answer to that question, hmmm, talk with him first, a good relationship should have open communication lines, very essential. so talk with him first and should no valuable explanation come or He gets defensive, no need to snoop, just know something is up, it may be cheating or illegal acts or many other things but something is definitely up, then you can snoop to satisfy your curiosity lol. anyways Sha, communication is so much better.

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  8. If whatever u discover while snooping will not make u leave ur partner, why give ursef the Heartache/Headache? Hello Pammie, i'm new here! Would luv to be a friend *Widegrin*

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    1. Wow! Welcome on board sweerie. You are already a friend #winks. Keep on coming dear, muaahh.

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  9. I can snoop when I am in a relationship but married? No! I'm not ready to give myself a lifetime of worry

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