A lot of ladies out there are suffering from abuse in their relationships and marriages, this has reduced their self worth/esteem. The fear of the unknown has made dem stick to their supposed "devil". The guy beats the living day light out of you and you still stand there to tell me that you still love him, that he will 'change'. When did you turn to a punching bag? I have no respect for a man that hits a lady and believe me, if my man hits me, even if it's by mistake, fiam I'll take to my heels. If he likes, let him come with Obama to beg for forgiveness, I'll not accept ooo, I don't want to be someone's punching bag tomorow and then keep lying to my friends that I fell off the bus cos of the bruises gotten as a result of the hiting. So, hit me not; I'm not your punching bag. If you are looking for who to hit, why not try John Cena. Mtchww.
Back then in school, my friend came crying to me that her boyfriend abused her sexually (really fighting myself from calling it rape). When I asked her to elaborate, she said, she kinda wasn't in the mood for s*x but the guy kept on pressurizing her and since he couldn't take NO for an answer, he beat her up and "abused her sexually" (that was the term she used, so I guess I'm stuck with it). The annoying thing was that after she told me that she'll stop seeing him, few days later, she continued in the relationship with the excuse that he apologised so sweetly. Sweet ke? Was she jazzed or something? Cos I couldn't really understand why she went back to him after the trauma he caused her. I got so angry and washed my hands off her case. Please, why should someone remain in an abusive relationship? I haven't really put my finger around this issue.
I detest seeing my fellow ladies suffering in silence and enduring that abusive relationship. For how long will you have to endure? I keep on reading write-ups about how people really build their mansions in an abusive relationship. Why can't you leave? Are you forced/ threatened? Aint there right authories to report a domestic violence to, my dear married people? Please someone help me out cos I really don't get it. Let's chat biko. Kindly like my page: www.facebook.com/pamscrib