Tuesday, 25 August 2015

Guest-Post: Please help a porn addict.


Dear Pam, I read your blog, and as sad as it is, a non-commenter. I'm sure a lot of us read and don't comment, please forgive us all.

After reading your post on addictions, I have decided to come out to seek help. Pam, I am addicted to porn. I have been for a very long time and it has caused me my relationship.

I prefer to watch porn and masturbate than have sex with my fiancée. She has actually caught me severally while masturbating in the bathroom just immediately after my two-minute sex with her.

She couldn't take it anymore especially after the last time. It has really affected me alot cos any little time I get is porn time. In the men's room at work, in my car, everywhere. I don't know what to do anymore. I want my girl back. I love her. I want to stop this. Everyone is angry with me because of this act. Pam, it's really bad. Please help me. Thanks.

****Dear Poster, since you are no longer in denial and have accepted you have a problem, it's the first step to recovery. Try to delete and trash anything that links you to porn. Occupy your mind with better and positive things. Make sure you are clean first then prove to your girl you've got it under control. Do not deceive her into believing you've changed when you haven't. Do an overhaul on yourself. ****
Please let us advice our dear brother.

12 comments:

  1. Chaii as pam said (my namesake lol) I advise u delete everything on either your phone or laptop.also open up to your fiancee so that she can try and help you.get spiritual help fast too .hope my comment helps you

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  2. Erase every thing that has to do with porn.
    Ask God for help. Accept Him as in your life, cos have read testimonies of people in your situation and how they where liberated. Simply seek spiritual help. Hope my suggestion helps u.

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  3. @ poster pamy has said there is to say and alsp don't forget to put it in prayers there is nothing impoSsible for God to do.
    Gidi get in here ur professional advice is needed.

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  4. Even 8 he deletes,he can still download. He needs the renewal of the mind, have you decide on quitting. your determination and zeal will go a very long way to quit

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  5. Porn is not the answer click on my name for a very clean solution.

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  6. If u dont clear ur mind 2 start afresh it wont b possible jst have dat determination 2 stop it....also put it in prayer wit God all things r possible

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  7. Please go to church and get delivered

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  8. This is a very strong porn addict o. I go with what Bola said.. Total renewal of your mind is the first step. Replace those porn videos with gospel messages.. May God help you..




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  9. I agree with bolatito. He should occupy his mind on other relevant things and be focus! Good luck!
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  10. I agree with bolatito too. a bad habit is contrary to the word of God.his liberty is not guranteed without the help of God.
    please visit my blog for how to deal with habit @www.wlcmwisdom.blogspot.com. thank you.

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