Choose a topic biko.

I have been racking my brain on a topic to give this piece but its been unsuccessful so far, it has given me headache more than the post itself. So please do me the honors of giving it a topic for me. Thanks. #winks.

Conquer with prayers always.

A Blessed Sunday to you all. May the peace of this day be showered upon you all and the gates of hell shall not prevail in your lives in Jesus Name. Amen. I'm really thankful for guiding us to the last weekend of August. Isn't God awesome?

Lazy Friday for me.

Its another Friday and the beginning of the weekend, gush, been waiting for this day to come, when I will lean back, sleep in and do movies with my legs up (wake up and go to work cos I work on weekends). But seriously, for you guys who have the weekend to relax and enjoy yourself, do so, life is short.

Tantrum THURSDAY.

Another Thursday of Tantrums, another day to vent it all out, say it all out. Someone pissed you off, made you mad, you want to scream, punch someone, jump down a 5 storey building, jump into the lagoon, etc, please don't do those things, just come in here and tell us everything.

Guest-Post: Please help a porn addict.

Dear Pam, I read your blog, and as sad as it is, a non-commenter. I'm sure a lot of us read and don't comment, please forgive us all.

After reading your post on addictions, I have decided to come out to seek help. Pam, I am addicted to porn. I have been for a very long time and it has caused me my relationship.

I prefer to watch porn and masturbate than have sex with my fiancée. She has actually caught me severally while masturbating in the bathroom just immediately after my two-minute sex with her.

She couldn't take it anymore especially after the last time. It has really affected me alot cos any little time I get is porn time. In the men's room at work, in my car, everywhere. I don't know what to do anymore. I want my girl back. I love her. I want to stop this. Everyone is angry with me because of this act. Pam, it's really bad. Please help me. Thanks.

****Dear Poster, since you are no longer in denial and have accepted you have a problem, it's the first step to recovery. Try to delete and trash anything that links you to porn. Occupy your mind with better and positive things. Make sure you are clean first then prove to your girl you've got it under control. Do not deceive her into believing you've changed when you haven't. Do an overhaul on yourself. ****
Please let us advice our dear brother.

...Let us praise God.

Let everything that has breath, praise the Lord, and don't forget to praise Him in any situation you find yourself. Happy Sunday to you all and may the beauty and blessings of this day be showered upon us. Amen. I have few things to share with you today, remain blessed as you meditate upon them. God Bless You all.

Addictions.

We are what we are in the confines of our rooms. When in a gathering and alcohol is served, once a person says he/she doesn't drink, that person is termed a "born again" or spoil-sport. So I normally ask, Is drinking of alcohol a religious thing or a personal thing?