Love of my life!!!

So, few days ago I was watching a movie, then an actor said "how do you know someone is the love of your life when you  are still living/alive?"  I pondered upon it for sometime and then came up with this question, who is qualified to be the love of your life? How do you even know that he/she is the one?

Looking at the high rate in divorces and married couples who are literally living single these days, I noticed that most of them had once termed their partners "love of my life". And then when the worst part of the vows sets in, you here things like "this isn't the man/woman I married".

I put this question on my BBM personal message, and a friend commented on it with this.
" You will have this inner peace in you, even if you guys drink only garri.. You can be yourself with him or her. Also, when he or she tells you or does things you desire to hear or experience that no one else has ever ever done to you.. Then you'll know he or she is the love of your life"

I kinda agree with her, but one thing is missing here. God's guidance!!! If God is not in with us here, we tend to be carried away by the "over love" and be blinded to some ugly signs which will later lead to regrets and "this isn't who I married" phrase.

We all need this to make the right choices in our relationships and marriages. Let God guide us to the part where "the love of our life" dwells. To the married ones, keep on praying for your partners, there are lots of temptations out there. A family that prays together, stays together, always remember that. Cheers.

Ps: Thanks a lot for your prayers and best wishes, it worked. I'm stronger and better now. Believe me, this sickness shook me no be small. A friend even started terming it spiritual attack cos she hasn't seen me this way before, hian! Lol. But God pass the sickness, I'm better now. Thanks a lot, and I love you all. E-hugs and kisses.

I speak...HEALING.

Yes, I declare VICTORY over all forms of sicknesses in our lives in Jesus name, Amen.
A victorious Sunday to you all, and hope your nights was splendid? Hope the Christians amongst us are going/went to church? Please try to attend and worship God in truth and in spirit, also pray for us that couldn't attend (Yours truly is at work). Jesus loves and always cares for you, take note of that.

In our little corners today, let us all pray for the sick ones all over the world, For by HIS stripes we are HEALED. Pray that the Lord should grant them hasty recovery. Amen.

Friday! Friday!! Friday!!!

Another Friday is here again. Yippee!!! Friday's are synonymous with fun and rest, the last day of the working week, a day waited upon like a miracle, so, here it is.

Most of us at work today spend a lot of time looking at the clock on a Friday than any other day, can I get a yes? Lolzz.

So, to all my party lovers, please, I beseech you, there are lots of other Fridays ahead. If you must drink, don't drive. I hate the current trend of accidents that's prevalent these past days. Many even coined it "ember months accidents". Please, party gently and be safe. Cheers to a beautiful weekend.

Thursday Tantrum!!!

"Rain rain go away come again another day, Pamela wants to wash!"

How are you all doing this rainy week? Do you like the downpour? Don't you like it? Well, as for me, I want it to stop biko, have clothes to wash.

You all know what today is right? Yes, it's Tantrum Thursday! So what is that thing that has pushed you to the wall this week? Vent it out here.

I've been really under the weather, ran some tests and found out it was malaria and typhoid. No wonder it hit me hard. I really don't like feeling this way, it makes me weak joor. And I hate being weak. I hate injections and drugs. You need to see the drama I acted in the hospital when I wanted to be injected. The nurse couldn't hold her laughter. My doctor is wicked shaa, see the plenty drugs he asked them to give me, nawa.

Anyways, I hope to be better soonest so that I'll get up from this bed.

Your turn?

RE: Is being female a crime?

This is from a blog reader who has something to share concerning a post of last week, (Is being female a crime? ). Read on-

Hi Pam, I just finished reading your post about being female.
You will agree with me that more than any other time in human history females have more freedom.

The truth is that as humanity advances it will get better.
I believe it has been like that based on the fact that women play a greater role in peservation of humanity than males.
... and the early humans, in other to preserve what makes us humans needed to "restrict" the female in order to preserve what makes the human higher than other animals (self control and morality).

That is my thinking, I may be wrong.
Also, there is the aspect of home. The success of any home is largely dependent on the woman.
You can have a man that has failed in all aspects of life including loss of values and morality who is married to a good woman. You will discover that the home will survive it but if the reverse is the case, the home is ruined.

Survival of the human race rests on the female and not on the male. I am not talking about donating sperm but about the very essence of humanity. Thanks.

Who agrees to this? Your thoughts biko, let's gist.

God is ever Present.

A pleasant Sunday to you all, and the Peace of the Lord be upon us all. Amen.
This weather is really dealing with me. What started with cough and catarrh ended up being something else. But, God pass the sickness. All in all, I'm thankful for life. Do dwell on the below.

HAPPY INDEPENDENCE DAY.

Happy 55th year to our dear country NIGERIA. Hmmm, it's been 55 years already, and we pray to get to our higher ground soonest. God bless us all.