LIVE your LIFE.

Ehmm, my mail box is empty. There isn't any guest post today (SOBS). Please dear friends, Tuesday is our Guest post day, so send in any gist. Do you want advice, send it in. Tatafo of any form, biko, humor us. Help Pammie's Crib to serve you better. Cheers dearies. Nevertheless, I have something for you.

I read and hear stories about suicides in Europe and America and it not only baffles me, it enrages me to hear such. Why kill self out of depression or a jilted lover or shame? It could have been worse. What enrages me more is that Naija people have joined the queue. Suicide rates are soaring. The trend like many western traits is starting to find its way into our country. How can a young and promising young man, kill self cos the lady he loved dumped him to marry someone else? Or a lady commit suicide for the same reason. This is insane biko.

Ok, see this scenario; I was watching a movie last night, Wild Card, here a girl needed Jason Statham's help in torturing the people that raped her, when Jason asked her about him getting killed cos the people involved were dangerous people, the only answer she gave him was "I'll be miserable for days". Yes, she wanted him to risk his life and when killed, she'll just mourn him only for a few days. 

So you see, if you commit suicide cos someone dumped you, the highest he/she will do is to mourn you for a few days or months, that's if the person will even bother to mourn you. You see why it doesn't make any sense. There are so many things to live for. So no matter what you are going through, Suicide isn't and shouldn't even be an option. 

I know life can be torturing at times, but the ability to HOPE for a better tomorrow should keep you going. Speak up and reach out, don't keep it all in. The ups and downs in life sharpens us for a greater future, so HOPE for the best, have FAITH and PRAY more. Everything will turn out for the best, it may not be today, but eventually it will. #GODWIN.