Best way to act in a quarrel?

Hello my dearest Pamscribers, how are you all doing today? Hope good. Well, I still thank God for saving me on Saturday, cos whenever I pass that spot, I just look at it and wonder how I didn't land in the gutter. A friend said it's all adrenaline, but I said it's all GOD.

Anyways, today is supposed to be our Guest-Post day but since none came in, the ministry must move on. So this question is for the house, what would you rather prefer happens during the course of a misunderstanding/quarrel with your spouse? Someone who gets angry concerning what you did wrong, and tells you straight on that you just stepped on their wrong foot (no hitting involved), or someone who wouldn't say a thing, walks out on you/bears the grudge of what you did and reminds you or uses it against you later in future?

Surely, there will be quarrels in relationships/marriages, how best would you want your spouse to handle a quarrel? Tell you straight up/trash the issue at once and then kiss and make up, or say nothing and then stump out of the house without resolving the issue that caused the quarrel.

Let me go first, I'll prefer we resolve whatever caused the issue that led to the quarrel at once, settle and then forget it ever happened. I hate silent treatments, it drives me insane. I keep imagining what the other person is thinking at the moment, and most especially I hate when he walks out in-between a quarrel making me worried sick about where he went to. Just stay in and settle whatever misunderstanding you both had, and let sleeping dogs lie.

What's your take on this? Let's gist.