Tuesday 3 February 2015

I Am Beautiful!

Growing up I kept wondering why I was constantly yabbed in high school especially by the class bully thomas (not real name). All I hear was, 'Pam you are too fat', 'Pam you have very big lips'. I got so angry and didn't like myself much. I kept on wondering why my elder sis was slim, with the most sexy nose and lips, infact the perfect body; my dream body.

I hated it wen people refer to me as the elder one even though my sis was three years older than me. I almost started getting jealous of her.
Then one day, I stood infront of the big mirror in my room and took a really long look at myself and asked myself 'why am I like this?', but I took another look and saw a really beautifully and wonderfully made human. A wonderful design. I immediately said to myself 'Pam, you are beautiful',and believe me, my life changed. All the talks in school and everywhere wasn't getting to me anymore. All I told myself each day was, 'I am beautiful no matter what anyone says'. I embraced and loved myself more than ever.

A lot of people out there are dying of depression cos of all the bad and painful words people say to them. If you are reading this, always tell yourself, 'I am beautiful'. Block all those negativity from your life and only embrace positive things. Don't even think that you won't find love cos of the way you are, believe me, you will find something better than love but remember to love yourself first cos if you don't, loving someone else may not be easy. He who truely loves you will love you the way you are, no matter what. So believe in yourself, and always declare to yourself that 'I am beautiful'. Cheers.

*Pick no offence dearies cos of the late post, been having this severe headache since today. I'm better now though. Thanks lovlies.
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10 comments:

  1. Anonymous4 February 2015 at 08:14

    glad to hear you're better. any one blabbing about my looks had better look like Mr/Mrs Universe or I'll tear them a new one! besides looks are so fleeting, I'd take a grounded sensible person with good manners & values over one with looks any day.

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  2. Anonymous4 February 2015 at 08:14

    glad to hear you're better. any one blabbing about my looks had better look like Mr/Mrs Universe or I'll tear them a new one! besides looks are so fleeting, I'd take a grounded sensible person with good manners & values over one with looks any day.

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  3. Anonymous4 February 2015 at 09:04

    Really nice piece. We should learn to accept ourselves the way we are, nd ignore all bad comments from people.

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  4. ChincoBee4 February 2015 at 11:45

    Lol people get time sha but I think as we grow older we drop those attitudes of saying " someone is fat, ugly, skinny" blah blah blah

    But you are always in the best position to love yourself first. I don't care about your opinion concerning me. I sha know am not worwor and am not a dwarf lol.... No matter how horrible we are, there is always a man or a woman for everyone!

    Good to know you are better!!!

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  5. Anonymous4 February 2015 at 15:36

    Hope you are better now?Pele, ndo
    Back to the topic of discourse
    When I was young pple will abuse me that I have big lips,big teeth ,no yansh no breast as in,it became torturing eehn I wasn't proud of myself,i was always cautious,in took my time to at least dress well even if I no fine.one day,a cute guy came to ,eat ,e he said wow you are beautiful!the best part of your body is your lips.since den my Shakira no be here ooo.
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    1. Unknown4 February 2015 at 17:48

      Thanks dear, i'm better now.

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    2. ChincoBee4 February 2015 at 22:01

      @Bmf I abuse you join....Restitution time ahahahahahaha but you sef your shakara too much...This babe can form chai

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  6. Naijasinglegirl5 February 2015 at 07:30

    Aww Pam. This is a very inspiring post. We are all beautiful and wonderfully made.

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  7. Aphrodite5 February 2015 at 18:42

    This is an awesome post! I grew up hoping i could be as slim as my sister, that my boobs are not so big, that i'm not Taller than both my elder sisters! But now, even though i'm still Chubby, i know i'm damn gorgeous nd i av a Man who loves me like that! Hehehehe *smug*

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    1. Unknown5 February 2015 at 20:23

      Hi dear, its been a while. Where have u been hiding? Lolz. Welcome bak.

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