tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7342278093147481470.post7447499600550291340..comments2023-06-01T15:29:18.078+01:00Comments on Pammie's Crib: Guest-Post : Confused if "he is the one". Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08664544142700779684noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7342278093147481470.post-22931069899001671012015-10-29T18:42:49.489+01:002015-10-29T18:42:49.489+01:00firstly, i would say, that you are still contempla...firstly, i would say, that you are still contemplating if he is the one at the stage of fiance-marriage, that is something to worry about. <br /><br />the first thing to consider in choosing a spouse is your purpose or rather thier purpose on earth. does this one guy advance your God-given purpose?<br />Does he build you up in Christ or pull you down?<br />Do you see yourselves raising a home that will please God?<br />do you even know the purpose for which God has created you?<br /><br />if your purposes are not aligned, there's bound to be disagreements in future.<br /><br />this is one of the reasons for divorce and in such situations i begin to wonder if one can even do anything about bringing the spouses back together.<br /><br />When you marry someone, its for the rest of your life so its important to make the right decision.<br />how would you even know who is right when you don’t know that you are right?<br />knowing your G0d given purpose is important so you don’t get tangled up in a relationship that draws you away from it.<br /><br /> so, what's your purpose in life? does it align to his? <br /><br /><br />finally, if you want to be with a guy and he is the one, there'll be no questions at the point of getting engaged...you shd be at a point where you can't wait to be married to the personVickyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07755750340130955856noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7342278093147481470.post-21043360756567352012015-10-28T20:34:05.804+01:002015-10-28T20:34:05.804+01:00You and only you know.Go to God in prayers,observe...You and only you know.Go to God in prayers,observe him.study him like a book.then set out what you want in an idea man if he pass the litmus test then you good to go.<br /><br />bolateethole.blogspot.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7342278093147481470.post-16254058114228565392015-10-27T15:35:12.523+01:002015-10-27T15:35:12.523+01:00there is that little voice in your heart... follow...there is that little voice in your heart... follow it....<br /><br />www.adenegift.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com